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Relationship Contract Agreement Format

This Relationship Contract Agreement (“Agreement”) is made on this ___ day of ___ (month), ___ (year), by and between:

Partner 1: [Full Name], residing at [Address].

Partner 2: [Full Name], residing at [Address].

Collectively referred to as “Partners” in this Agreement.

1. Purpose of Agreement

This Agreement is intended to create a shared understanding and outline the mutual commitments, responsibilities, and expectations between the Partners in their relationship. It is not a legally binding document but serves to strengthen the bond and provide clarity.

2. Commitments and Values

The Partners agree to prioritize the following commitments and values in their relationship:

3. Individual and Shared Goals

4. Expectations

The Partners agree to the following expectations to ensure a healthy and supportive relationship:

5. Financial Agreements

6. Commitment to Growth

Partners agree to support each other in personal growth and professional aspirations by:

7. Intimacy and Physical Affection

Partners agree to maintain physical intimacy in a way that is mutually respectful, consensual, and mindful of each other’s needs.

8. Duration and Review

This Agreement will be reviewed every [e.g., six months] to ensure it reflects the current state of the relationship. Both Partners may suggest amendments to the Agreement as needed.

9. Termination of Agreement

This Agreement is not legally binding but is based on mutual respect and trust. Should either Partner feel the need to dissolve the relationship, a respectful discussion will take place.

10. Signatures

By signing below, both Partners agree to the terms outlined in this Agreement and commit to upholding the values, expectations, and responsibilities stated herein.

Partner 1: _________________________ Date: ___

Partner 2: _________________________ Date: ___

Relationship Contract Agreement Samples

What is a Relationship Contract Agreement? 

A Relationship Contract Agreement is a formal document that outlines mutual expectations, responsibilities, and boundaries in a personal or romantic relationship, ensuring clear communication and fostering harmony. You can also see more on Cohabitation Agreements.

What is the Importance of Having a Relationship Contract Agreement? 

All married and unmarried couples are advised to be in possession of a relationship agreement because these types of contracts cover properties, investments, and other vital issues. Having a relationship contract would help couples in not allowing a third party to influence their relationship in a negative manner. However, friendships and relationships with others are very necessary; they are subordinate to the importance of the relationship. 

Couples are recommended to have a clear and better understanding that each of them belongs to a certain family, and each one of them must respect and protect the interests of the whole family. There must be a lot of clarity on the family unit because it reflects the wishes and desires of a couple. A relationship contract directs individuals on how they should relate with the extended family and guidelines to follow when a conflict of interest happens or seem to occur. You can also see more on Partnership Contracts.

Types of Relationship Contract Agreement:

Types of Relationship Contract Agreement

On the forms of the relationship contract agreement, these can differ depending on the types of relationship the people are in. The following are the main ones:

Long-Term Monogamous Relationship Agreement This is essentially a love contract between a couple. Some of the most common things people include in this agreement are respective responsibilities—which is how the partners will be responsible for themselves and each other about things like happiness, health, professional development, emotional growth, and personal development; treatment—treat each other with respect by being clear on how you would or would not like to be treated; independence—find the right balance between independence, care, and intimacy and know how much time you need to spend with your respective friends or even your time alone; privacy—this is related to independence like how much personal space or privacy should each person have, is it necessary to you give the passwords of your devices to your spouse, or is there a need to enable the GPS tracker on your phone; honesty—this is how to be transparent and honest about what matters in your relationship yet, respect each other’s privacy, so, being honest will help avoid conflicts, frustrations, and unnecessary internal resentment; disputes resolution—how to minimize or resolve disputes in a relationship by certain rules like never shout at each other, never go to bed angry, and just treat each other with respect; household chores—agree on who should do what like frequency of each chore that needs to be done, whether to do it on a rotational basis; sex—many long-term relationships turn from passionate initially to platonic and sexless so, it would be good to agree on a regular schedule to keep the romance on; and penalties—agree on the consequences and penalties on breach of the relationship agreement despite not being legally enforceable.You can also see more on Marriage Contract.Short Term, Friends with Benefits, or Open Relationship Agreement This is an agreement to have a casual sex/relationship without any emotional connection. Although it can be a little awkward, the parties should express frankly their needs and desires from the beginning without getting into the muddy waters of a real relationship. The parties can agree on a series of issues in advance and set very clear boundaries on what can and cannot be done. Here are some things that people put into this agreement: exclusivity—if the relationship is meant to be exclusive or an open relationship there is the need to define “exclusivity” like does it mean that the parties are free to date but cannot sleep with other people; safety—it is a good idea for both parties to check for any sexually transmitted disease before entering into the relationship and regularly after the relationship commenced because protection is recommended even in an exclusive relationship to avoid the risk of STD and pregnancy; boundaries—it is important to set boundaries in such a relationship, both inside the bedroom and outside: inside the bedroom, you can have well-behaved sex with your special friend or be more selfish and do what is satisfying for you, so long as it is clear what you and your partner’s bottom lines are; outside the bedroom, one may want to agree on not to visit each other’s home or workplace without the permission of the other party; term—how long will the relationship last means you should probably set a fixed period to avoid being too attached for too long; and emotional attachment—having “no strings attached” may sound easy at first, but once you start making love, the empathy center in your brain comes into play, and people may start developing emotions for one another, with this, you need to discuss what happened and the big rules are broken.You can also see more on Contracts and Agreements.One-off Relationship Agreement One might think it is a bit over the top to require the parties to sign an agreement for a one-off relationship (whether it is a one-night stand or a paid relationship). There are few reasons for signing a one-off relationship agreement: set boundaries for the activities—the good thing is that you can be completely selfish and do what is satisfying for you (since it is one-off), you just need to agree on what the bottom lines are and stick to it; and evidence of consent—protect you and your partner in this era of “me-too”. Remember, this agreement is not legally enforceable or maybe even illegal in some jurisdictions, but it is good evidence to show that both parties consented to the act should any dispute arises.Workplace Relationship Agreement This is principally used to demonstrate to the employer how to adhere to the company’s employment policy, avoid any conflict of interest, and favoritism in the workplace. This is different from the agreements mentioned above and is designed for two people in a romantic relationship that are working together. It will be provided to the employer to give some comfort in relation to potential sexual harassment or unfair dismissal claims.You can also see more on Draft Agreement.

Steps to Include in a Relationship Contract Agreement:

Steps to Include in a Relationship Contract Agreement

The things to include in relationship agreements are quite a lot and differ from each other but depend on your relationship, future objectives, and past Events. You can also see more on Partner Agreement. Here are some of the issues that a couple should include in a relationship contract:

Step 1: Property and Finances Details

It sought to cover all the properties including those you had before you started the relationship and properties gained by both of you.

Step 2: Property Inherited or Gained as a Result of Gifts in During the Relationship

Any property given to a couple is legally owned by two of you. This involves gifts received from a commitment occasion, anniversary party, or received from a friend or relative either to one of you or both you. You can also see more on Financial Agreement.

Step 3: Expenses

The contract should cover how you should or you would like to handle your expenses. This may include how you will sub-divide your daily utilities, the cost of food and laundry, just to mention a few.

Step 4: Separation or Death

It is advisable to include a short description of what might happen if there happen to be a separation or one of you passes away. In case a separation occurs, you may wish to share equally the property you gained when you together or according to each other’s contributions. Upon death, the wealth remains in the hands of the living partner.

Step 5: Dispute Resolution

All relationship agreements should include all means that will be used in conflict resolutions. In recent years couples used to go courts to resolve disagreements. Nowadays, couples are advised to use other means in solving disputes, such as mediation and arbitration if mediation seems to fail. You can also see more on Work Contract Agreements.

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FAQs

Is a relationship contract legally binding?

Unlike a traditional prenup, a relationship contract agreement is generally not legally binding, and deals primarily with how to create and maintain a relationship, rather than the financial fallout when one ends.

Why does every couple need a relationship contract?

A couple contract is not designed to tackle specific challenges. Rather, it is designed to help couples map out and agree on what really matters to them over the long-term. Having this explicit agreement makes it easier for couples to navigate the many transitions they will face across their working lives together.

What are the three stages of a contractual relationship?

First, an offer is made that contains all of the necessary and relevant terms of the sample contract. Next, another party agrees to, or accepts the offer. Lastly, after the offer is accepted, something of value is exchanged between the parties involved in the contract—this is called consideration.

Who should consider a relationship contract?

Any couple wanting to build a stronger foundation of trust, transparency, and shared goals can benefit from a relationship contract. This can include both new couples and those in long-term partnerships. You can also see more on Personal Contracts.

What should be included in a relationship contract agreement?

A comprehensive relationship contract should cover topics like communication methods, personal boundaries, conflict resolution, time commitments, and personal goals. By covering these key areas, the contract can serve as a practical guide for maintaining a balanced and respectful partnership.

Are there any downsides to a relationship contract?

Some may feel that relationship contracts restrict spontaneity or add unnecessary structure. If not approached positively, these agreements can feel overly formal. It’s essential to ensure both partners see it as a helpful tool rather than a restriction. You can also see more on Agency Agreements.